Should I add lots of ruffles and lace to a floral print dress, throw a petticoat underneath, with white stockings and flat shoes, and a lace/satin chocker?

Or should I add a sexy apron and heels, don't add the ruffles, add some sexy lace, and maybe add a prop of a white basket with a gingham print hanky among beautifully decorated baked goods?

There will be children there, so no cleavage will be shown and either dress style will atleast cover my thigh all the way to my knee.
No one in fashion answered. Maybe someone here can help.